Hi, I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years now, we have almost 3 years living together, I have a 5 year old son of a past relationship and he has always been living with me and my current boyfriend, so my son sees my boyfriend as his father because he has been there for him since he was 15months. The problem is that my boyfriend has a 5year old daughter from a past relationship as well. His daughter used to live overseas, she just came to the country to live with us 5months ago. Before she came to the country, i was looking forward to having her with us, but now that she lives with us, for some reason, I cant stand her. She isn't rude or anything like that, she behaves good, but for some reason, I can't stand her, I find her annoying. Her voice irritates me, her presence bothers me, most of the time I wished that she didn't exist. I dont like feeling this way towards her because i know that can ruin my relationship with my boyfriend. What can I do????? HELP PLZ!!!!!!
This is quite disturbing. She is a 5 year old child who has done nothing to deserve your dislike for her. Turn the tables and consider how you or your son would feel if your boyfriend thoght that way of your son. I say get over it or end the relationship donot punish the girl.
